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Every angry comment is a breadcrumb — not about me, but about them.
What they choose to say reveals exactly where their own pain has been denied, ignored, or dismissed.

Take this comment:

“Pulling from your own experience, aye? Not everyone goes through the same thing in life.”

What it tells me:

  • They felt spoken to, even if I wasn’t speaking to them.

  • They assumed that their experience should override mine, which implies they’ve often been forced to dismiss their own.

  • The deflection is protective. The pain is real.

And so: I don’t reply.
Not because I don’t care —
but because nothing I say will reach them until their own body speaks first.

Healing is an inward path.
No one can be argued into it.

🌍 Earth is Physical Density Therapy

This is the loop.

We incarnate here to feel it all —
the trapped energy, the inherited patterning, the rage that isn’t ours but was handed down and held too long.

And through the resistance —
through these dense, reflexive reactions —
we learn to transmute.

Not by fighting back.
Not by winning arguments.

But by sitting still
as their projections pass through us like waves through a mountain.

Earth is the place we come to practice that stillness
until the pain no longer needs a voice.

Until the silence is no longer empty,
but sacred.

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